Growing up, I had what I imagine was a fairly typical Western middle-class relationship with the automobile: Indifference at first, followed by an adolescent lust. When I purchased my first car – a 1978 Chevy Nova for $1 – it was an amazing moment: The whole world was open to me. A year or two later I took that beater cross-country, and it suffered catastrophic problems in the Black Hills and I barely limped home.
After that, I experienced the phenomenon of Car Envy; I was carless, and I would walk the streets and study everyone else’s cars and wish I could afford to buy a new one. Or knew how to steal one. Cars filled my thoughts. I felt trapped and constrained.
I did eventually buy another car (not as cool as Laverne, the Nova, who had style) and later got rid of it when I merged everything with The Duchess. Then Hurricane Sandy hit, and our car got flooded and towed away … and we simply never replaced it.
We live in a walkable town, with plenty of public transportation and access to New York City, so we’re kind of ideally positioned to not have a car. There are plenty of places in the world where not having a car would be impossible. And our circumstances could change at any moment and require us to buy a car, since the world today is designed for car travel. So this isn’t a statement about how awful cars are and how everyone should go carless.
That said, it’s been pretty nice. No parking woes. No insurance and maintenance costs. Any time we’ve rented a car to go somewhere, there is a fifteen-second period of “Wow, driving is hella fun!” followed by sitting at a stop sign for ten minutes and then crawling another four blocks followed by inching our way along an access ramp followed by oh holy hell someone shoot me in the head. In other words, every time we rent a car it reminds us how awful driving in this area really is.
What’s really interesting are the disbelieving reactions we get. Even people who live in this town and know what it’s like always give us what scientists call The Fisheye when we tell them we not only don’t own a car, we have no desire or plans to purchase a new one. It’s like we just announced we’re communists and that we’re keeping our cats not as pets but as a food source. Granted, it’s a bit unusual to not have a car these days, but the awkwardness the revelation inspires is a little off-putting.
Then again, I sit at my office window in the early evenings and watch people literally fight over parking spaces, and I feel this smug sense of peace settle over me. Plus there’s the fact that when I irritate and irritate my neighbors with my pantsless antics, they can’t slash my tires.
You kind of surprise me. I know Janet doesn’t have a car and Sherlock doesn’t either. I just figured people living in really big cities didn’t. I know you always see a billion cars on TV but I just figured those were all taxis, tourists, and movie props. (And part of my brain isn’t convinced that NYC exists in the real world anyway.)
I think the two of you are wise. I live in one of those places where I need a car and it’s the single biggest drain on my resources and the cause of most of the stress in my life. What if it breaks down? What if I go in a ditch or crash and die or hit a squirrel? Gah!
Revel in your carlessness.
Detecting a trend, George Michel is reworking his past hit into a new release, Carless Whisper.
“I’m never gonna drive again
Empty hands have got no car keys…”
http://youtu.be/izGwDsrQ1eQ
Loretta – I think going without a car is more typical in Manhattan, but outside of the island itself most people have cars. Parking is a nightmare and traffic as well; I grew up 10 minutes from Manhattan by bus/train and everyone in my neighborhood had a car. But I agree with you about the stress: Esepcially as I never owned a new car, I always bought cars that were already ticking time bombs.